Top 10 Thing Women Secretly Want to Know About $ex

1. Why can’t I orgasm from the missionary position?

Because you need to experiment with a lot of positions to see what stimulates you the best! Try being on top which will give you control and apply more pressure to the clitoris. Missionary just doesn’t hit a lot of nerves for some, which is perfectly normal.

2. Why can’t I orgasm from just intercourse stimulation?

Because the clitoris has way more nerves than the v@ginal canal. Your partner might not have a lot of experience in that area, and might need a helping hand. Show him what feels good with his hands, with his mouth… a lot of girls need more than just a p@nis to orgasm, and sometimes a trusty vibrator can be an interesting third party to bring into the equation.

3. Why are some guys so weird about going down on girls, but love to receive oral?

Because blow jobs are a lot less taboo than cunnilingus, in our patriarchal and squeamish society. Don’t take that attitude from him if it’s something you want. Everyone needs to be a giver if they’re going to be a receiver. It might also be because they’ve been told they’re bad at it, but in that case, you can let them know you’re glad to help out and guide.

4. Or on the other end of the spectrum? How do I get more comfortable and relaxed with him giving oral $ex?

Having someone’s face down their can be not only $exual, but incredibly intimate and have to do with trust, as well. A lot of girls can’t have guys give them oral without reaching a certain level in their relationship, and that’s fine! Try to relax and even have him talk you through it, if it helps. Or choose a position that makes you less self-conscious and allows you to focus on pleasure.

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5. Am I supposed to pay attention to a guy’s balls, or is that weird? What’s too little pressure or too much?

Depends on personal preference. Asking never hurt anybody. If you’re testing the water and don’t want to ruin the mood by saying something, give them a gentle tickle or caress, and if he responds positively, squeeze a little harder, or press on the skin between his anus and testicles. His little guys are sensitive, so don’t go all-out with aggressive squeezes. Stay aware, and be gentle if you do decide to go for it.

6. How come supposedly adrenaline-pumping $ex ($ex standing up or in a foreign place) is actually more awkward than hot and rarely results in an orgasm?

Because movie-scene passionate $ex looking at skyscrapers isn’t real. Just like we should never try to emulate porn in our own $ex lives, trying to be overly adventurous can often override your ability to focus on pleasure. You can mix it up in little ways, but don’t try to show off or do anything acrobat that will seem more like a competition than lovemaking.

7. What’s so great about shower $ex?

Shower $ex is often talked about as being so great and steamy, but it’s also a movie scene myth. While just the act of showering together can be $exy, combining it with actual intercourse is generally a pretty bad and sometimes even dangerous situation. Potential head banging on walls, falling on slippery surfaces, and getting soap in places that are not painful to have soap in.

8. How many times is normal to m@sturbate a week?

As many times as keeps you happy, as long as it’s not interfering with your daily life or becoming a serious addiction. Masturbating is more taboo in this world for women than it is for men, but it’s the number one way to get to know your own body and figure out what you want. That’s one of the most valuable things you can figure out about yourself.

9. Is it weird to keep my bra on during $ex?

Whether you feel more comfortable this way, or it provides some much needed support during a vigorous bang, you’re entitled to do it. Especially if your boobs are really big and logistically, it gets in the way. Some guys might even think it’s hot, if you choose a sultry lace one. Dudes love hot lingerie, so if you prefer bra on, go that route.

10. Will he be open to kinky things I want to try, or think that I’m a freak or a slut?

If he does think you’re either of those things, it’s time to say goodbye. Guys have kinky preferences all the time, especially weird stuff like where they like to finish. Often a guy will love if a girl is open-minded and takes charge with what she wants to do.

Top 10 Thing Women Secretly Want to Know About $ex